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Traveling solo or no?
Rob Sangster has traveled in more than 100 countries and all seven continents. He's a"shellback," having crossed the equator many times over, and a member of the "Trod the 24 Club," having visited all 24 time zones. His wanderlust has lured him to India, China, other Asian and Southeast Asian countries, Central America, about half of the countries in Africa and South America, a fair number of the Pacific Islands, most of Western and Eastern Europe, the former Soviet Union, Australia, New Zealand, Antarctica, and throughout the United States.
Curious about carrying too much luggage? Wondering about wandering worry-free with children? As GORP's travel expert, Rob is here to answer all your questions!
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Michelle's Question:
Hi Rob. I've been thinking of taking a vacation and getting anyone to commit with me has been harder than deciding on all the wonderful, adventurous options. I have been nervous about traveling alone (I am planning on Morocco), and yet I also find myself nervous about spending so much time with someone as well. It could be a disaster either way. Is there anything you can suggest that can clarify the situation for me either way? Thanks!
Michelle
Answer:
Michelle,
Michelle, your two concerns are felt by many folks preparing to travel.
First, you're nervous about traveling with--and without--a partner. Second,
you're having trouble finding someone anyway.
Consider carefully whether you actually need or want a traveling partner.
Don't assume or let habit prevail. Make a list of the reasons for which you
might prefer a partner. Then make a list of why you might rather travel
alone.
Your decision should also take into account your specific destination.
Generalizing with respect to Morocco, many women would be considerably more
comfortable with a companion, male or female.
Your instinct is right on target about the possibility of interpersonal
emerging when traveling in close contact with someone. The solution? Prepare
a list (what? another list?) of travel-related characteristics you consider
most important, such as: Early morning or late night person? Active or
passive? Snorer? First class or budget? Intimacy or not? Comfortable with
silence? Include everything you care about, then go over the list with a
potential travel partner.It's a matter of compatibility, not right or wrong.
Of course, you can just take a shot in the dark if you don't mind traveling
with Godzilla. Send me your lists and we'll talk more about how to find the
right person. Good luck!
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